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Je refuse - The Data
Today is the last day of school for B and C. It's a wrap on 3rd and K. Before I describe this morning, here's this year's data....

Bravebutafraid
Jun 16, 20232 min read


Automaton
I'm not quite sure how this metaphor will unfold, but I've been thinking about automatons and the way I choose to live my life. The first...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 15, 20233 min read


Complimentary but distinct
What I'm gleaning from smart ladies with life experience: Need vs Want. The more honest you are with yourself The more honest you are...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 13, 20231 min read


Invitations
This birthday weekend was one for the books. My son invited his entire kindergarten class to celebrate with me on Friday because he "knew...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20233 min read


Fragility
It must be nice to be a Man, capital M man, Man whose M is flipped to be a W for White, Man the representative noun, except it's not...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20231 min read


Flora, fauna, and food
Why does everything I see in the garden remind me of something else (usually food)? The bumble bee is my drunken chef: White sugar stuck...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 12, 20231 min read


Lost scissors
My daughter is living art. I talk about my son a lot -- the squeaky wheel, and all that -- but my daughter is equally precious and...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 8, 20232 min read


It is better to speak
For those of us who live at the shoreline standing upon the constant edges of decision crucial and alone... and when we speak we are...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 7, 20231 min read


A practice in goodbyes
I think Parenting, done right, is just a practice in saying goodbye. Goodbye, my love. Go out into this fathomless world where I can't...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 6, 20231 min read


Looking outside of ourselves
G-d exposure therapy. Today is the elementary school's annual Hike Through History. It's 86 degrees outside, and there's little shade in...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 2, 20232 min read


Moments of Divinity
Walking through the Monet traveling exhibit in Boston during a French class fieldtrip in high school, listening to the tutorial audio...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 2, 20231 min read


Unrelated beautiful things
A bearded iris in the morning's first light, the beard a glowing sea anemone, the petals a beaded Victorian purse. The t-shirts I found...

Bravebutafraid
Jun 1, 20231 min read


Self-study
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I'm trying to figure shit out through writing. One of the things I realized during this therapeutic...

Bravebutafraid
May 31, 20232 min read


Distillation
Winnowing, distilling, parsing, honing, exposing. Great writing requires a ruthless pen. Re-reading the passage over and over, each time...

Bravebutafraid
May 31, 20235 min read


Free
I slept fitfully last night. The kids used my phone to listen to a sleep story, and I was too tired to retrieve it after they fell...

Bravebutafraid
May 30, 20235 min read


Vignettes
The first bachelor button bloomed yesterday. Some days my brain feels like it contains an empty marble rolling back and forth with each...

Bravebutafraid
May 25, 20232 min read


Unbearable
The unbearable Thing isn't, really. Because if it was unbearable, then we couldn't carry it. Examining the sadness, looking inward at the...

Bravebutafraid
May 19, 20231 min read


L'arbre des rues
Passant, regarde ce grand arbre et à travers lui, il peut suffire.Car même déchiré, souillé, l’arbre des rues, c’est toute la nature,...

Bravebutafraid
May 18, 20231 min read


Processing it all
What does it mean to write about trauma in real time? Instead of going to work to avoid processing the loss, the Finder makes the...

Bravebutafraid
May 18, 20234 min read


Flippin hills
I'm listening to Frozen 2. On my own. "The Next Right Thing," sung by my celebrity crush Kristen Bell, fits my mood. And the next song,...

Bravebutafraid
May 16, 20237 min read
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