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Looking outside of ourselves
G-d exposure therapy. Today is the elementary school's annual Hike Through History. It's 86 degrees outside, and there's little shade in...

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Jun 2, 20232 min read
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Moments of Divinity
Walking through the Monet traveling exhibit in Boston during a French class fieldtrip in high school, listening to the tutorial audio...

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Jun 2, 20231 min read
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Unrelated beautiful things
A bearded iris in the morning's first light, the beard a glowing sea anemone, the petals a beaded Victorian purse. The t-shirts I found...

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Jun 1, 20231 min read
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Self-study
As I mentioned in an earlier post, I'm trying to figure shit out through writing. One of the things I realized during this therapeutic...

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May 31, 20232 min read
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Distillation
Winnowing, distilling, parsing, honing, exposing. Great writing requires a ruthless pen. Re-reading the passage over and over, each time...

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May 31, 20235 min read
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Free
I slept fitfully last night. The kids used my phone to listen to a sleep story, and I was too tired to retrieve it after they fell...

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May 30, 20235 min read
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Vignettes
The first bachelor button bloomed yesterday. Some days my brain feels like it contains an empty marble rolling back and forth with each...

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May 25, 20232 min read
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Unbearable
The unbearable Thing isn't, really. Because if it was unbearable, then we couldn't carry it. Examining the sadness, looking inward at the...

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May 19, 20231 min read
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L'arbre des rues
Passant, regarde ce grand arbre et à travers lui, il peut suffire.Car même déchiré, souillé, l’arbre des rues, c’est toute la nature,...

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May 18, 20231 min read
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Processing it all
What does it mean to write about trauma in real time? Instead of going to work to avoid processing the loss, the Finder makes the...

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May 18, 20234 min read
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Flippin hills
I'm listening to Frozen 2. On my own. "The Next Right Thing," sung by my celebrity crush Kristen Bell, fits my mood. And the next song,...

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May 16, 20237 min read
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Resentment
I wrote a draft yesterday about feeling frustrated with everything: the fact that C stayed home sick, that I was like a glorified but...

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May 13, 20232 min read
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Self-Reliance
Ralph Waldo Emerson's writing remains one of the most profound sources of comfort and inspiration I've ever consumed. From my teen years...

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May 9, 20235 min read
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Abundance
My daughter tucked a Crayola-yellow dandelion into my braid and held my hand on the walk to school; my darling, you know the meaning of...

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May 8, 20231 min read
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The cormorant
Yesterday, in the course of wrapping up my law business, someone said something unkind. Not to put too fine a point on it, but they...

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May 5, 20235 min read
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You are allowed
Just because you had breakfast doesn't mean you're not allowed to have dinner. I'm paraphrasing Esther Perel giving advice to a young...

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May 3, 20233 min read
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Fine!
I canNOT do this unLESS you give me LIGHTENING!, I admonished the rain this morning. I left the French Doors on the porch open, lay a...

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May 2, 20232 min read
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Moms
I wish I had a close relationship with my mother. I don't think about it as often as I used to, but days like today, when my husband and...

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Apr 27, 20234 min read
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The accumulation of moments
My cat, Petite Puce ("my little flea") bit my son while he snuggled her before school this morning. C is proud of his quiet ability to...

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Apr 26, 20235 min read
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Soft Things
The feeling runs from my throat, traveling like water or air through my core. My nervous system is activated. I'm nervous. Filled with...

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Apr 25, 20233 min read
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