top of page


Soft Things
The feeling runs from my throat, traveling like water or air through my core. My nervous system is activated. I'm nervous. Filled with...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 25, 20233 min read


Surrey without a fringe on top
We took a surrey ride in Philadelphia. Surrey rides promise to: Catch the attention of passersby! Provide transportation plus...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 24, 20234 min read


Tepid
I wish to be impulsive Needs must Practical always wins When does the whim of the self Surpass duty Comfortable Safe Sheltered A peace...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 24, 20231 min read


Singing
A titmouse shoots from the metal finial to the peach tree where I stand, hopping closer, branch by branch, until I can meet its curious...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 15, 20231 min read


Acceptance
Hone and spread your spirit till you yourself are a sail, whetted, translucent, broadside to the nearest puff. I wrote that Annie Dillard...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 15, 20234 min read


Decadence
Sometimes it's easier to do the hard thing than the thing I desire. It's cleansing, working myself into a state of utter exhaustion by...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 15, 20232 min read


Validation
To validate someone is to acknowledge that they are complete in their humanity. Being human means one has feelings, reactions, ideas, and...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 11, 20232 min read


Gliding
Yesterday's Easter was like a golden retriever: It took nothing out of me, it filled me with love, and it calmed my nervous system....

Bravebutafraid
Apr 11, 20232 min read


Unhurried
I planted a peony bulb in the fall of 2020. It's the type of peony I used to cut out of magazines as a little girl and paste onto...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 10, 20232 min read


Luxuries
The sun is gliding toward the horizon on this gentle spring day. I always look up the street at dusk. We live at the bottom of a hill,...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 8, 20232 min read


Crowded Table
My new favorite song is Crowded Table by The Highwomen. You can hold my hand When you need to let go I can be your mountain When you're...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 8, 20232 min read


Creativity
"There is no connection between creativity and age. There is only a connection between productivity and age." Albert-László Barabási,...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 5, 20233 min read


pACC
One of my goals as a parent is to give my children the tools to navigate life's ups and downs. That's the benefit of progress: each...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 4, 20234 min read


Tapping
My-heart-is-rac-ing-I'm-pac-ing 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8 Tap-tap-tap-tap-no-tice-heart-beat Nod-my-head-o-k-o-k-now Forgot my meds...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 3, 20231 min read


Beauty
Beauty itself is the language to which we have no key[.] Annie Dillard, Pilgrim at Tinker Creek Symphony No. 2 in D Major, Clementi

Bravebutafraid
Apr 2, 20231 min read


Humility, Language, and Being a Bad Bitch
In middle school I read through the entire Bible, Old & New Testament, three times. I'm talking cover to cover, with footnotes. I took...

Bravebutafraid
Apr 1, 20234 min read


Strep Throat & Gratitude
To me the small things are significant. Earlier, I noted how articulate C was in telling me about his fight with B yesterday, and how...

Bravebutafraid
Mar 31, 20233 min read


Resilience and Adversity
Yesterday my son's equine therapy was canceled because his therapist was sick. For the past month my daughter has gone to her...

Bravebutafraid
Mar 31, 20233 min read


Self love is not self-indulgent
Briefly, because today is early release at the elementary school: Podcast: We Can Do Hard Things, Episode 194, on healing from her eating...

Bravebutafraid
Mar 30, 20231 min read


Spring, sunshine & serotonin
Yesterday my son stayed home from school with a cold. He recovered enough to play outside by early afternoon, and we spent a good chunk...

Bravebutafraid
Mar 28, 20233 min read
bottom of page
