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Insecurity
According to Eric Fromm, what distinguishes us from other sentient life on earth is our ability to perceive that we have choices, and to...

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Mar 25, 20233 min read
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Two opposed ideas
I am probably in the minority in my dislike of The Great Gatsby. I do, however, love the following quote, also written by Fitzgerald: The...

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Mar 24, 20234 min read
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Stream of consciousness
Yesterday my psychiatrist told me that I'm a good mom. The outward part of me thanked her. The inner part of me, after the meeting and...

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Mar 23, 20232 min read
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Adrift
I like the definition of adrift that says a person or thing is free from restraint. The state of being can be negative, positive, or...

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Mar 21, 20232 min read
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We forget to count the days
I don't want to brag, but I have incredibly developed pathways in my sympathetic nervous system. I'm no neuroscientist, but after my...

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Mar 10, 20234 min read
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Spinning of sky winds.
"Let me feel the heavy, silting, sucking mud, the spinning of sky winds. Give me nothing fixed, set, static." D.H. Lawrence It is hard to...

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Mar 8, 20234 min read
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"Don't look at me in that tone of voice" ~ Dorothy Parker
I'm sure Dorothy Parker would agree that marriage is a patriarchal institution. Maybe she's even written about that very topic. In a...

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Feb 20, 20233 min read
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Here's where I've been: Boiler room.
One of my dearest friends is in Costa Rica. She is a genius Spanish-speaking high school teacher with two young kiddos, and she and her...

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Feb 19, 20233 min read
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Psychoanalyzing myself
I cried on the playground today. No, I did not travel back in time. This was 40-year-old me crying on the playground. I'll admit it was...

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Feb 17, 20233 min read
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"Outlook has exhausted all shared resources"
When I was in high school, I had a friend I'll call "T." T was kind and friendly to everyone, and she went on (according to Facebook) to...

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Feb 16, 20234 min read
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Pinecones and poop
Things observed while living with small humans: Unflushed poop. Pinecones on the kitchen floor. 6054 sheets of paper with a single mark....

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Feb 10, 20231 min read
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Fallen
Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck! Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck. Fuck a duck. My heart broke anew this morning. C refused to...

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Feb 8, 20233 min read
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Night moves
Last evening en route to equine therapy, B asked, "Can you decide if you want babies, or do you just have them?" Ironically, this...

Bravebutafraid
Feb 7, 20232 min read
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Cozy
It's currently negative 28 degrees with the windchill. The incongruous marigold on this post was taken last year during a warmer month....

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Feb 3, 20231 min read
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Two steps forward, one step back
Yesterday afternoon was C's monthly team meeting at school. Everyone gave glowing reports. Bubble space, compassion, engagement, bright,...

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Feb 2, 20233 min read
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Live outloud
Last night my children and I attended a friend's senior basketball game. This friend has served as an informal mentor to my youngest. We...

Bravebutafraid
Feb 1, 20233 min read
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